I would want proof of that statement! Quality of Life is important.
There are lots of ways of delivering HRT too. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with? My lump was apparently oestrogen dominant so I wasn't supposed to have any HRT and thus far, 25 years later, haven'g required it. 'tamoxifen' almost killed me

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As for the vaginal problems, that is a totally different issue. Do read the Vaginal Atrophy thread on the Forum, make notes ;-). Ring your GP and ask for 'vagifem' or 'ovestin'. The idea is to use the preparation every night for as long as necessary, once symptoms ease one can drop down to every 4th and 5/6th nights. More or less as symptoms niggle. Some require 'vagifem' nightly as well as using 'ovestin' or a moisturiser on the outer vaginal area. Have a lookC at 'yes' and 'sylc' websites.
Why would herbal remedies be any safer than what NICE suggests

and if your GP has told you to live with

, report him to the Practice manager! No lady has to 'live with anything' Your GP should at least have referred you to an NHS menopause clinic, not a gynaecologist who don't know much about peri-menopause etc..
Let us know how you get on. You don't require an examination for proof of VA. 4 me it presents as repeated urine infection-type feelings: need2P continually, lower bladder pain, low back pain ......... and treatment has helped
