Aww, thanks for the hug x I’ve been mostly fine on vagifem, but if this flare doesn’t settle down I’ve been advised here to try Ovestin as a couple of times the vagifem pessaries have fallen out just lately without dissolving. I’m trying the Wb Yes to see if that helps first. Lots of people get on really well with Ovestin. I was thinking of trying Yes VM too instead of the WB in the future. I’ve just been learning as I go along - what works, what doesn’t, getting advice on this forum whenever things change/shift. For me, things seem to be stable for ages and I run off back to my life…and then…bump!! Then I run back here. The balance gets tipped every so often. Eventually, you learn and get a general feel for what might be happening and can get advice and ideas on here, implement various strategies/make changes. I’ve found it all to be a very steep learning curve. My mum had an early menopause too, but she said she sailed through it so I never learnt anything about it. I had never even heard of V.A before it happened to me. People didn’t ever talk enough about these things generally. Keep going, it will get better x