THANK YOU! so much CLDK for starting this topic. My daughter ,was almost 20, unfurtunately
was using H after being introduced to it by various types of people+she also had had some
trauma in past. So people want something to numb their pain +try +forget even temporarily
the pain. it could be alcohol,presciption drugs, otc drugs, glue sniffing,cutting 1 self, or food which could be in form of anorexia,
bulimia or binge eating. If some people have had perfect lives with no trauma,thats great ,but
a lot havent inc myself+my vice used to be dreadful binge eating,which couldv caused serious harm.
Unfortunately some(not all) DDs are not nice people +even more unfortunately my girl met the
wrong D D +ended up murdered. I so wish there was no stigma towards people who dont fit the
norm. As Sheila says if we knew years ago alcohol+tobacco were harmful, we wouldnt have made
them legal,BUT theyd have been in hands of dealers,+caused same probs as H +weed etc. but alcohol misuse
causes far more harm in overdoses ,drinkdriving, domestics etc.
having to cope with late post meno,constant trauma ,guilt,is too much sometimes. I thought i was coping as well as can be expected till meno, but post meno 18 months +its much harder to get through each day x