Hi nutbutter. Sorry to know you've had a particularly bad few days. Absolutely no need to apologise - I don't log on here every day either, in fact I sometimes go weeks without looking at the forum, which is partly why I suggested you PM me. Sorry about the shorthand - there is a Personal Messaging facility on the site that members can use to chat more in depth, one-to-one, about issues that e.g. may otherwise take a thread way off course, or about something they're uncomfortable putting on the open forum. As PMs are notified via email I know when a member is trying to get in touch even if I haven't looked at the forum for some time, so I can then log on to MM & chat with them. But I now see you've only made 7 posts so far & I think you need to have 10 before you can use the Personal Messaging facility. I'm happy to do that when you're up to 10 posts if you think it might help to chat in more depth. My history is complex & it would be inappropriate to put too much on the forum that may turn out to be be irrelevant to you, that's why I was asking some odd questions to try to get a feel for what may or may not be helpful to pass on.
Yes, absolutely it's very difficult to know which specialty might best help when symptoms cross over. All I can say is trust your instincts as far as you can. ENT should be very helpful where dizziness/balance issues are a problem & they would likely refer you on to Neurology anyway if they thought that appropriate, or ask your GP to do that for you on the NHS if a 2nd private consultation is difficult for you.
Could you raise your concerns about a possible pituitary disorder with your GP? Endocrinology usually deal with that area, but your GP would be first port of call & may be able to rule that possibility out without you possibly wasting time & money on a potentially inappropriate referral.
Good that MRI head & neck is in the pipeline. ENT arranged my first, but whichever specialty you & your GP decide is best bet for a referral, I would raise it with the consultant & they may ask for it to be brought forward if they think it appropriate. I would mention everything you've tried, inc the acupuncture, whoever you see. If it might help you feel more prepared & relaxed on the day, perhaps document relevant history concisely & either use as your crib notes or hand it over to the consultant. When a condition is longstanding it can be so easy to forget to mention something, especially if you're feeling unwell on the day & worrying about that eventuality just adds to the stress. If a private referral is agreed you could even contact the consultant's sec & ask whether he/she might want to see the summary in advance, then email or send it.
Knowledgeable?! No. Just like many women on here, been round the block a few times & happy to pass on personal experience if it might help. I will try to remember to keep checking this thread while your posts are still below 10, so we don't miss each other.
Wx