Hi,
yes Pain is not one of the top issues mentioned - not one medical professional I have met puts 2 and 2 together. Both medical profession and patient don't associate the symptoms with lack of estrogen. I bet they would save the NHS a fortune in the long run if they tried HRt first.
Oh yes the dreaded mood swings. I can get several in a day!
Yes you have descibed my pain exactly as yours. I had various scans and was sent away like yourself and basically told to live with it. Living in pain with everything else that the menopause throws at you can be very dark.
I thnk that there is no reason that if your GP is reluctant to prescribe, you can't ask to be referred to a specialist clinic. As long as you have the right progesterone to counter act the estrogen if you have a womb, then you should be ok. If your GP is clueless arm youurself with info from the louise Newson site. Also ask him exactly why he wont prescribe and put it in writing! But you never know he could have watched the Davina Programme!

Positivity helps , but it is flippin hard sometimes!
I have booked an appointment with the Newson clinic as I think I need an overhaul HRT wise. But there is a wait.
Let us know how you are getting on and how your GP appointent went .
I wish you a pain free weekend!

PMxx