Hi,my daughter has exactly the same but she's only 30 so not meno in her case,she gets it every year,think it's a combination of the very cold weather we had then the central heating being on,you describe her symptoms to a T she's using a baby cream called Child's Farm moisturiser (unscented) and it's the first one that's taken the itch away,she's tried everything with no success but this one seems to do the trick