Hi Katrine
I completely understand you - I should imagine that concerns about symptoms are the main motivator for researching options! When you're in the middle of it all, you just want some hope that it's not forever and you will feel better. I've had 2 years of headaches, nausea dizziness etc and just not feeling right. If you look back on my posts I have asked a few times whether this HRT journey is all worth it as at the time, I didn't seem to be getting any relief. I couldn't understand why most women felt so much better when taking it, and every single month asked myself if I should carry on.
I think because it's all so individual its very difficult. What one woman experiences and finds hard, another will take in their stride quite well, and vice versa. We can only feel how "we" feel and know what is and isn't tolerable to us as individuals. I think when I first started HRT it was a probably a bit of FOMO thinking it was this wonder drug that would take everything away. The reality is that it probably won't fix every single thing and it's very much trial and error. In my case a LOT of trial and error haha. At present, if I can get some relief from having a daily headache I'd rather take HRT than be maxed out on paracetamol and aspirin all day long.
Like you, I live in hope that the theory about having a rubbish perimenopause means a less rubbish menopause is true!