Hi Moaningmyrtle.
Glad you've found us, and I'm sorry to hear your suffering at this time.
I was the same too with the flushes, I didn't sweat that much, as I don't anyway, just get so hot until I feel I'm going to pass out, it's truly awful.
The anxiety was bad for me too. I've been post meno for nearly five years now, and still suffer from it occasionally. HRT does work for me, but it's not a miracle worker either.
I've got my life back, that's what's important.
As for the bleeding, I would think the drop in the Utrogestan has caused it.
It should settle down, but if not, go back and the doc should send you for a scan, which is no problem at all, I've had one, as have many women on here.
The trouble with HRT is that we need to tweek it here and there, one size doesn't fit all, as it were, so you may find you need more oestrogen then your having. Although, you should see what happens and stay on it for 3/6 months to see if it suits you. Unless of course, you have horrendous side effects. Then you should change to another regime.
If you havnt had a period ( not including this bleed now) for 12 months, then yes, you should take the Utrogestan daily every day.
I'm not on patches, so can't really comment, I'm on tablet form HRT.
But I'm sure someone will post soon whose on them.
Hang in there. One day at time. Do you take pain relief for the aches and pains?
The vitamin D should start working too. Keep taking it. If you are deficient, it might take a while to build up.
Sorry I couldn't be any more helpful, but I'm sure some one will be soon.
Sending best wishes to you.
Jd xx