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[CLKD]

I said that in a Bank years ago jaypo 

[jillydoll]

  Yorkie....do you think sometimes it's YOU that's weird! Because like I said before, mostly I can chat to anyone, but then on my bad days, like when I have anxiety, I can't even give eye contact, and I think people think I'm weird......almost like their thinking, ‘ she's a funny one, sometimes she talks, other times she don't and totally ignores everyone ‘ .
I know I shouldn't second guess what people are thinking, but when I'm like that I can't help it. Then I worry that they think I'm some weird, old, head case....🤷‍♀️ 😆... But I suppose thats what the anxiety is doing to me..
Thankfully, those days aren't very often anymore...x

[jillydoll]

Yes Jay, but that's your true job....you could've come up with a lie just to tell them...🤣😂😂

[jaypo]

Aaahhhh Jill you've told everyone 
There was a really grumpy assistant in a shop I went into once so I said to her,oh I love your nails (they were all sparkly) and that was enough,she was chatting away after that,so I guess people do have bad days, I know I do,like you Jill, I just don't make eye contact,so I suppose WE must come across as rude sometimes

[jillydoll]

Yep, I think we all judge, and get judged too quickly sometimes.
It's just everyones way..🤷‍♀️

[jaypo]

Yep very true,we don't know what a person is going through

[CLKD]

I think we need a badge: 'bad day, ignore me' 

[Yorkshire Girl]

Yes i'm weird  but you are so right. I'm good at judging too quickly, just can't seem to help it.

[jillydoll]

We're all weird in our own little ways..that's what makes us, US. I'm the weirdest of em all...
Or should that be the fairest of em all....🤣😂

[jaypo]

No,you were right the first time Jill 😂😆
Haha after saying how friendly everyone is here at the lodge,my OH and I were outside speaking to a lovely old man who stays opposite us,this car came driving along and we all waved,the two occupants just glowered at us,they nearly got another hand gesture

[jillydoll]

Haha, lovely people every where Jay....☝🏼 Haha....
They probably thought whose them weirdos waving at us! 🤣😂🤣😂

[jaypo]

Was probably the mankini 😂😆

[jillydoll]

Why, was the old man wearing it? 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[squeaker99]

Jaypo - Please excuse me if this is nosy but what is a' lodge' - is it a Masonic thing? One of my neighbours talks about her husband going down ' the lodge' like it is a secret thing. I didn't know it was somewhere people could live.

[sheila99]

Please don't take offence - but that had me in stitches 😂
Funny handshake then jaypo?