I think when it comes to HRT, you have to weigh up risk-v-benefit. I have been a lifetime migraine sufferer, so I definitely wont be going down the HRT route. However, I am 54 and very new to menopause, so I haven't suffered too many symptoms. A very close friend had a mammogram a year after starting HRT and now has a very aggressive breast cancer to contend with. Prior to HRT, she had all negative mammograms. I know that one bad diagnosis doesn't form a pattern, but her specialist put the blame squarely on the HRT.
I Had a hysterectomy 18 months ago as I had a 16mm thickened uterine lining caused by a lack of progesterone. I did not want an IUD inserted and I certainly did not want to take progesterone every day, so I elected hysterectomy along with prolapse repairs. I try very hard to keep on top of health issues by keeping my weight down and eating a healthy diet rather than via medication.