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Katelou

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Perimenopause symptoms
« on: October 12, 2019, 06:18:55 PM »

Hi ladies, can you post what your first memories of starting the menopause were. ❤️
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CLKD

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #1 on: October 12, 2019, 07:58:01 PM »

I think I can -

I had periods from age 11.  They became clotty, heavy, very painful from 15 until I began The Pill at age 16. For 11 years.  Then I was sterilised so periods were a nuisance with less pain.  Then I had PMT  >:( so was advised to eat every 3 hours.

I didn't really notice much except my periods waxed and waned.  From a regular 32 day cycle I went from missing for months.  Knew it was The Change  ::).  Then I would have regular periods but lighter.  This went on for 3-4 years B4 they disappeared [2002].  I didn't stop carrying protection for 5 years though  ;D

At the time oestrogen levels were dropping [hindsight is a wonderful thing], I would get very itchy insteps. OK all day but as I stepped into the bath they would begin to irritate.  Not due to hot water as I would find myself rubbing one instep with the opp heel in the night  ::).  Also across my shoulders would itchy, initially I thought I hadn't dried properly - anyone get that?  So DH would rub the area gently but it really needed a Good Scratch  :o so now I have a back thingy to hand.

Legs get dry sometimes.  Deep in my ears, eyes, scalp - all itch but not all the while.  My ears need a thin poker down them but of course, I don't - we call it 'spaniel ear' in this house as DH gets it too.  He also has itchy skin and uses 'nivea' at night on his legs.

Irritable bowel is affected by hormones.  I have slow transit  >:(.  And don't forget indigestion  :o: I have back ground reflux which can get worse, hiatus hernia is a side effect of dropping oestrogen.

Did you want to know all that  ::)
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northwest1965

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2019, 08:16:38 PM »

My first memories are of hot flushes. Thankfully they didn't last long.
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AgathaC

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2019, 08:34:15 PM »

I'm 47. I started about 4 years ago. Weight gain, heavier (awful) periods, sore boobs, anxiety, digestive issues (GERD).
Over the past year or so, I've added funny moments (not sure they are hot flushes), dry skin, aching joints, fatigue, sleeping issues, even worse anxiety, sorer boobs, dry eyes.
I still have regular (awful) periods but I am definitely not the person I was 5 years ago.
Worse symptoms for me are boobs and anxiety.
It took me a while to work out this was the perimenopause.
Where are you in this journey? X
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Sparkler

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #4 on: October 13, 2019, 08:43:51 AM »

Hi there

Palpitations and sweats age 42 plus weight gain. Controlled the palpitations and sweats with beta blockers ( didn't even consider menopause). Then awful reflux, night sweats and crying episodes. Cycle shortened to 22 days then started missing periods, with permanent pmt anger and emotional upset until one finally arrived. Was offered hrt at 47 but didn't start taking it until shortly before turned 49. Instant relief. Still have symptoms but I am myself again.

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Dierdre

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #5 on: October 13, 2019, 01:21:59 PM »

Mine were palpatations and weight gain around late 40's, but didnt relate this menopause at the time, had a few random hot flushes and then periods became very heavy and frequent for a few years before gradually getting less.
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20032003

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #6 on: October 14, 2019, 03:45:14 AM »

Mostly hindsight on a lot of things, I think. My periods have gotten lighter over a few years time. Gradually. Weight gain. That happened quite suddenly though, and does seem to want to stick around whatever I do. Which is OK. I have accepted my new body. Just annoying to have to buy a bunch of new clothes all of a sudden.....  ;)

I had what I think was hot flashes for a while, but have not had lately. It's been months without. Recently, achy joints (hips especially) seem to have returned though.

At the moment I am worried about my odd period that has dragged on for a few weeks now. Hopefully it is just the same story as almost exactly a year ago (see my other thread "Is this normal").......

I turned 50 this year, by the way.
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20032003

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #7 on: October 14, 2019, 05:21:58 AM »

That's right. I forgot big time sleeping problems and also hair loss...... >:(
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Foxylady

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #8 on: October 14, 2019, 06:35:40 PM »

My first noticeable symptoms were hot flushes/sweats and sleep problems. However as someone else mentioned in hindsight I had a large number of symptoms over a number of years before it became obvious to me it was likely menopause related (although took 3 years for medical diagnosis).
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Katelou

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Re: Perimenopause symptoms
« Reply #9 on: October 14, 2019, 10:52:19 PM »

I'm 47. I started about 4 years ago. Weight gain, heavier (awful) periods, sore boobs, anxiety, digestive issues (GERD).
Over the past year or so, I've added funny moments (not sure they are hot flushes), dry skin, aching joints, fatigue, sleeping issues, even worse anxiety, sorer boobs, dry eyes.
I still have regular (awful) periods but I am definitely not the person I was 5 years ago.
Worse symptoms for me are boobs and anxiety.
It took me a while to work out this was the perimenopause.
Where are you in this journey? X



Hi I'm just starting am 44 and had light periods for about a year but this month after being so regular I was a week late with chronic cramps now bleeding for a continuous 2 weeks do far? Doc said peri menopause do I must be lol 😂
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