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Author Topic: How do you know when to stop using HRT?  (Read 1482 times)

Franco

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How do you know when to stop using HRT?
« on: June 04, 2019, 09:35:43 AM »

Hi ladies...I had a hysterectomy about 16 yrs ago, I'm now 56, kept my ovaries and struggled for years with night sweats and low mood but kept being told I wasn't peri or menopausal.  I have been on Estradot 100micrograms/24hr patches for about 4 years now.  I have also been on anti-depressants for most of my adult life.  I did come off them slowly over a 12 month period but within 3 months of stopping them the symptoms came back so I started back on medication, Mirtazapine 45mg at night.  I don't have an issue with anti-depressants but between them and the HRT I don't feel as though they're really working.  I did book a medication review appointment with my GP to discuss my meds and he basically said it's a difficult balance to get right as you would need to come off the HRT slowly and then introduce another one and finding the one that's right for you can take time.  I'm scared of going back to how I was feeling before the HRT but how would I know when to start coming off it?  I feel anxious most of the time, have palpitations and feel low and tearful....I think the meds numb you also.  I have so much to be thankful for...beautiful grandson, daughter, husband, job etc etc but I don't feel any joy or happiness.  It's so isolating as it's difficult to put into words how you're feeling.  Should I try a meds review again and discuss maybe coming off the HRT?  Is there any point being on anti-depressants and HRT if I'm still feeling this low?
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Karen max

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Re: How do you know when to stop using HRT?
« Reply #1 on: June 04, 2019, 10:48:57 AM »

Hi Franco
How long have you been in mirtazapine?
I was put onto same antidepressant and had to come if it as it was making me feel the very same as your feeling right now ..
from I stopped it 20 months ago I slowly started to feel better , I know it's great for sleep but that's all it done for me made me sleep

Kaz x
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Franco

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Re: How do you know when to stop using HRT?
« Reply #2 on: June 04, 2019, 11:20:15 AM »

Hi both...many thanks for the quick responses.  I did ask my GP if over time the HRT becomes less effective and he just smiled.  I know GP's can't know everything about meds but given many of their patients are probably menopausal age it would benefit them to be more educated.  I will make an app to discuss my meds.  I have been on Mirtazapine for a very long time...I can't tell you how frightened I am of not being on them and being back in that place...I have resigned myself to the fact that for the sake of 1 tablet a day it keeps me level and able to cope.  I am beginning to question whether it is enough to just be coping...I want to feel joy in my life again and to really embrace all the good things I have.

Jules xxx
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Karen max

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Re: How do you know when to stop using HRT?
« Reply #3 on: June 04, 2019, 11:56:41 AM »

Hi
I was the same I was just living no joy in my life when infect I should of been feeling great , I've a lot of happy things going on in my life , but I was flat/dead inside almost a numb feeling and when I look back now nothing give me joy or excitement at all ..
I was only on mirtazapine for 2 yrs and I knew i wasn't feeling like this before I started taking it , I know menopause cause us to feel crap but this was a feeling I'd never ever felt in my life !!!

I'd post natal depression after burth of my daughter as I didn't feel as low then as I did when I was on mirtazapine
We are all different what helps some just don't work for others !!

Hope you get things sorted out soon

Kaz x
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