Hi Nicky71
I'm afraid you have typical urogenital atrophy symptoms. The local oestrogen will help ‘eventually' but it can take some weeks or even months and you must use local oestrogen forever to keep things healthy. Initially Ovestin or Vagifem may well cause some side effects like burning, soreness etc. (probably due to the fillers in these products) but this should subside once the area is pumped up with oestrogen and healthier generally. Vaginal moisturisers is also essential - SYLK or the YES products are best.
Drink plenty of water - avoid caffeine, fruit juices and alcohol. If burning is bad (and the need to pee) try having a glass of water with half and teaspoon of bicarb of soda morning and night to neutralise the urine ( this can sooth the burning) - only do this for a 2-3 days at a time. Investigation by a urologist would probably be sensible so ask for a referral. Make sure you clean really well after opening your bowels - bacteria from the bowel can easily trigger imbalance in the vagina which will then cause burning in the urethra.
Avoid tight trousers, don't sit for too long and don't use anything scented near your intimate area - so scented soaps or shampoo - these will irritate things.
Here is the section from the NICE guidelines that you could show you GP:
Urogenital atrophy
1.4.9
Offer vaginal oestrogen to women with urogenital atrophy (including those on systemic HRT) and continue treatment for as long as needed to relieve symptoms.
1.4.10
Consider vaginal oestrogen for women with urogenital atrophy in whom systemic HRT is contraindicated, after seeking advice from a healthcare professional with expertise in menopause.
1.4.11
If vaginal oestrogen does not relieve symptoms of urogenital atrophy, consider increasing the dose after seeking advice from a healthcare professional with expertise in menopause.
1.4.12
Explain to women with urogenital atrophy that:
symptoms often come back when treatment is stopped
adverse effects from vaginal oestrogen are very rare
they should report unscheduled vaginal bleeding to their GP.
1.4.13
Advise women with vaginal dryness that moisturisers and lubricants can be used alone or in addition to vaginal oestrogen.
1.4.14
Do not offer routine monitoring of endometrial thickness during treatment for urogenital atrophy.
In time you will get things under control but it is about managing it so symptoms don't flare up.
DG x