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[zodiac]

Think ive totally gone off sex or just dont fancie my hubby that way any more, i get the urge n  then think na cant be arsed, i just dont know which it is, i love my hubby, we have a good relationship but i lost the sex drive with the peri meno, n its never come bk , i cant sleep, i have hot sweats day n nite, i eat healthy, go gym, dont drink , dont smoke, im just pissed off , fed up, moody bitch , i dont really socialise, coz not really got a mate to hang with go gym with , walk dogs with , its just me n hubby hes like my besty lol, n we do all that but i just dont have a sex drive
Its wots missing from our life coz i just dont want to feel like i cant be arsed
Im not normal
I want to be me , i used to have a high sex drive
Tryed all herbal stuff for meno, tryed evorel patches n didnt get on with them
  Now on vagifem but dont know if theyve stopped the VA coz i dont seem to want to have sex
Im not normal lol 🤪

[jillydoll]

Oh, Zodiac, I know how you feel honey....
You are normal, don't think your not, it happens to all of us....
The only reason my sex drive has come back is because I've upped my hrt!
Maybe you should try another hrt, don't give up on that, you've only tried one, there's loads to try....then hopefully your moods and everything will get better too....

Jd xx

[zodiac]

Im at the drs on wednesday morning , see what happens x

[jillydoll]

Good one Zodiac,
Ask for another hrt to try.
They say give it 3 months to see if it's ok for you....
You've nothing to lose, this maybe will be the one for you...
Good luck
Let us know how you're getting on....
Xxx

[Orangefoot]

I am 45 and use Evorel 50 with a Jaydess IUS.

I felt like you did but after a week or so with Evorel I got tingles of desire back. Now I'm a few months in, it's better but I still can't be bothered sometimes. I give myself a talking to and if I make an effort to start, it's worth it and connecting with my dh is good for both of us.

[Charliegirl@]

Yep! Definately going to get me some HRT!xx

[Tc]

Zodiac. You are normal. Vagifem treats symptoms of VA so can make sex more comfortable but I dont think it helps with getting the urge in the first place.
I know docs say a womens libido is complex and not just about hormones but in my case i believe it is.
All  thoughts and feelings went with the removal of my ovaries. I feel dead down there. And I can pin point it exactly to lthe instant oss of hormones.
So dont blame yourself. It realy isnt uncommon.
I hope you find some answers with the doc. Please let us know how you get onxxx

[zodiac]

Hi ive been prescribed evorel sequi patches i cant have hrt tablets coz of migrains also  she said my body obviously doesnt like oestrogen which i already knew , but its daft coz init the lack of oestrogen thats causing these probs 😳
So fingers crossed my body can tollerate this one x

[jillydoll]

Yes it is Zodiac.
Hopefully these patches will get you back to where you want to be.
Give them chance though, good luck hope they work for you....🤞🤞

Keep us informed, ( but not too much detail, if you get my meaning..😂😂😂)

Xxxxx