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BlueButterfly

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But why???
« on: April 04, 2019, 09:51:57 PM »

I've been lurking but not too active lately. I had been feeling rather great honestly! More energy, anxiety pretty much gone...just life has been fine....
but now....I'm not having a great day. Some stupid things have come back. I don't know why or what is going on again.

My body is being weird again....well, just awful really. I thought it was allergies getting back again, but the tight throat and tingling mouth are back and I don't know why! My mother thinks maybe a pinched nerve in my neck. I'm worried outside of my mind that I have MS or something as if feels like I can't swallow the same or that my throat is closing up when this happens. I really just don't understand why this is coming back!?! I can't do it again....I can't feel like I'm slowly being choked again. I've been allergy tested TWICE and nothing is ever found. I just don't know anymore.....

None of this ever happened to me until last year when my whole body went haywire and nothing is the same anymore.
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Jillm

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Re: But why???
« Reply #1 on: April 04, 2019, 10:26:36 PM »

OMG Bluebutterfly, I could be you, the tight throat and buzzy tongue are back with me also.
Buzzing/burning tongue hung about for about 3 years, disappeared for about 6 months, replaced by buzzing legs. Now have both, I just don't understand what is going on.
FFS I just don't get it. My calve and leg muscles also hurt, anyone else had that?😡🤬
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BlueButterfly

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Re: But why???
« Reply #2 on: April 05, 2019, 02:07:42 AM »

I just wish they could tell me why!!

And yes, my leg muscles hurt randomly. Calves, thighs...I get weird bubble popping like spasms at times as well.
I had a random cramp in my forearm yesterday as well....it gets so old!

I haven't slacked off that much on my vitamins. It's just so frustrating because I finally felt 'normal' again, honestly better than normal and then this all starts coming back. I had a break down when hubby got home from work...just couldn't stop crying. I hardly worry about much anymore but the idea of MS or something...that's hard. And it could be nothing more than this stupid hormone mess!  :angryfire:

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Jillm

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Re: But why???
« Reply #3 on: April 05, 2019, 06:23:58 AM »

Bluebutterfly,
You have described the bubble popping feeling perfectly. I know this is a long shot as GP already said it can't be but do you use vagifem.  My leg problems started just after I was prescribed it. I also feel if the skin on my lower legs is tight a bit like sunburn.
I am trying to ignore it, but it's really getting me down.
Going for GP check up this morning I'll mention it all again.
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CLKD

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Re: But why???
« Reply #4 on: April 05, 2019, 10:35:48 AM »

I have allergic rhinitis which improves when we do a deep clean of our bedroom and lounge  ::).  I always know when we've been lazy as my nose itches, I wake in the night with tongue scratching the roof of my mouth .......... anti-histamine at night helps.  As does hoovering.  Thoroughly  :D

Aches and pains are common during menopause.  Cramp can be eased by adding more salt to your over all diet.
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BlueButterfly

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Re: But why???
« Reply #5 on: April 05, 2019, 11:45:44 AM »

Jill, yes I get that feeling in my skin as well in my calves, like the skin is being pulled tight as if they are swelling. (They aren't, I measure all the time). No, I don't use vagifem or anything with estrogen in it. I am told I need to avoid it right now. I do use progesterone which has actually been great for me.

Stellajane, yes, I think allergies might be contributing but it's very frustrating because allergy meds are not strong enough. I have to stack them to get any kind of relief (24-hour allergy meds, Benadryl as well and maybe even a nasal spray...that's the next thing to try). And the worst thing is I've been checked twice now for allergies and nothing shows up. None of the tree pollens or anything. But it's better in the winter.

Thanks CLKD, I don't think I could add much more salt to my diet though.


Okay, so, after calming down yesterday I remembered reading before about zinc and burning tongue (tingly, prickly). So I took a zinc tab last night, the slow dissolving ones you suck on because that's what I have. Feels a bit better today. I will try it for a few days. Also less noticable when I am eating, chewing gun or very distracted.

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Hvenab

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Re: But why???
« Reply #6 on: April 05, 2019, 11:53:59 AM »

I have silent reflux according ent. Well the first symptoms swallowing issues. Odd taste mouth and inflamed throat. So two years and still not sorted. Muscular tension upper back and shoulders. I find wheat bags help relax muscles but a short term solution. I thought I had allergic rhinitis. I had pain in sinuses etc. That's got better but spent masses on meds, rinses. I believe all my horrible never ending symptoms are meno. It's been 9 years so I'm praying for the other door the one that feels awesome or so I'm lead to believe. My gp said around 40 your body will change. I never questioned it. Anyway we cant assume it's all meno. X
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Jillm

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Re: But why???
« Reply #7 on: April 05, 2019, 12:31:04 PM »

Not long back from GP. He was great, actually listened to me about the buzzing.
Did ask if it could be magnesium deficiency, he was very honest and said he does not know much about nutrition and had not heard of buzzy/fizzing if deficient.
I am to have blood tests for vitamin/mineral deficiency next week.
Did make me feel a bit better as he was not worried about anything serious, is thinking a problem with disk in lower back. Gave me very low dose amitriptiline for nerve feelings.
I still think it could be memo related, but I'll wait and see what the tests say.
I did walk there and back, about 4 miles in total and it didn't kill me, so may be nothing too bad then👍🥳
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Angel1964

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Re: But why???
« Reply #8 on: April 05, 2019, 01:43:49 PM »

OMG Bluebutterfly, I could be you, the tight throat and buzzy tongue are back with me also.
Buzzing/burning tongue hung about for about 3 years, disappeared for about 6 months, replaced by buzzing legs. Now have both, I just don't understand what is going on.
FFS I just don't get it. My calve and leg muscles also hurt, anyone else had that?😡🤬

I've got this now, left leg calf is awful. Pain and heat. Been checked for DVT last week and all ok. Tingling, pins and needles all over body. Throat and roof of mouth feels constricted, kind of swollen. Palps stomach driving me mad too.
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Jillm

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Re: But why???
« Reply #9 on: April 05, 2019, 02:22:40 PM »

Oh angel1964, I am so sorry you feel so bad. I also sometimes feel my throat and the back of my tongue are swollen. The first few times I thought I was choking. I now know it will pass.
I find boots expert dry mouth spray helps relieve the feeling.
I also find soaking feet in a bowl of hot water with Epsom salts relaxes my calves,
I have recently used my cool gel pillow under my lower legs in bed at night and find that helps.
I will update in a couple of weeks when I get the blood results on vitamin/mineral tests.
Hope you feel better❤️💕
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BlueButterfly

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Re: But why???
« Reply #10 on: April 05, 2019, 02:25:50 PM »

I hate to read so many having the same issues but it is a relief at the same time. I know I've read much of this can be related to menopause the hormone mess but it is still hard to wrap my head around it most of the time. Hormones wreak havoc on our bodies.

Jillm- sounds like the GP was at least helpful. Hope you find some answers.

I know I shouldn't worry about MS. I mean, I don't have balance or walking issues, vision issues, speech, etc. Just this random seemingly unrelated issues.

Angel1964 - Same leg symptoms have led me to have several DVT checks on my right leg...only leg I ever have long issues with. Left leg will give me pains and stuff sometimes but they don't last for days.

So, I guess I had forgotten...but I have some minor scoliosis...chiropractor told me, mother reminded me I had issues when I was like 11. Seriously how could I forget that? Anyways, chiro thinks that is contributing to the neck/shoulder pain (as it is causing some minor degeneration in my neck-he said was quite common to see with scoliosis) and my right leg pain/nerve issues/twisting. And the rapid weight loss I had that resulted in rapid muscle loss just aggravated everything. I do hope this mouth tingling is just that...nerve pinch and allergies combining at the wrong time. It is better today. Not sure if the zinc or less stress or what. Woke up in knots though...shoulder and back. Trying to work those out.
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Re: But why???
« Reply #11 on: April 05, 2019, 03:19:35 PM »

We evolved upright  :o  >:( not the best posture to maintain, think of the Chimps - rarely upright even when running.

Over the counter pain relief can ease symptoms.  As can brisk walking as it encourages good posture and good breathing.  Which reminds me, make sure that your footwear is suitable, if I stopped every woman with bad shoes and explained how it can affect the whole spine from head to coccxx, I would be very rich also the same when sitting: typing, driving, lazing ........

As oestrogen levels drop muscles may become lax = aches and pains!
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Angel1964

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Re: But why???
« Reply #12 on: April 05, 2019, 04:31:40 PM »

I hate to read so many having the same issues but it is a relief at the same time. I know I've read much of this can be related to menopause the hormone mess but it is still hard to wrap my head around it most of the time. Hormones wreak havoc on our bodies.

Jillm- sounds like the GP was at least helpful. Hope you find some answers.

I know I shouldn't worry about MS. I mean, I don't have balance or walking issues, vision issues, speech, etc. Just this random seemingly unrelated issues.

Angel1964 - Same leg symptoms have led me to have several DVT checks on my right leg...only leg I ever have long issues with. Left leg will give me pains and stuff sometimes but they don't last for days.

So, I guess I had forgotten...but I have some minor scoliosis...chiropractor told me, mother reminded me I had issues when I was like 11. Seriously how could I forget that? Anyways, chiro thinks that is contributing to the neck/shoulder pain (as it is causing some minor degeneration in my neck-he said was quite common to see with scoliosis) and my right leg pain/nerve issues/twisting. And the rapid weight loss I had that resulted in rapid muscle loss just aggravated everything. I do hope this mouth tingling is just that...nerve pinch and allergies combining at the wrong time. It is better today. Not sure if the zinc or less stress or what. Woke up in knots though...shoulder and back. Trying to work those out.

I've got the major weight loss too. I'm eating 💩 loads but it's falling off me with the stress of partner finishing with me in January over anxiety and nowhere to live. I've got my dog to try and keep me sane. But even she's sad. My emotions have shut down as cannot cry at all. But I am on citalopram and this medication can make that worse. I do think some of my symptoms are hormonal but majority are anxiety/depression. I hope you get sorted pretty quickly as all of these things that rear their ugly heads just send us back down again. Big big hugs xxx
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BlueButterfly

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Re: But why???
« Reply #13 on: April 06, 2019, 01:01:21 PM »

Well, things seem to be back to normal now. Not sure if it was the zinc or I had a pinched nerve that resolved.  My allergies are still awful though so now back to 2 to 3 different  allergy meds to manage my non-existent allergies that are just in my head (ironically between march/April and October  ::)) Just still a bit upset about that whole mess with the specialist. 

Angel1964, I hope you get feeling better soon! At least you are still eating. Getting the nutrition will help. (My anxiety got so bad I couldn't eat much at all-tight throat made me feel like I couldn't swallow.  I totally could but my mind was telling me otherwise )  :bighug:
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Angel1964

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Re: But why???
« Reply #14 on: April 07, 2019, 01:36:50 PM »

Look what I found re tingling limbs. Will show this to my GP next time.

Tingling limbs

This uncomfortable sign might also come with burning or tingling in your limbs.

Hormone issue: changes in estrogen

This symptom is much more common in women. Many report feeling tingling in their extremities, especially around menopause. The Australian Menopause Centre says hormone fluctuations, especially changes in estrogen levels, are to blame for this uncomfortable feeling. In addition to that pins-and-needles feeling no one wants, you may also experience numbness or a burning or crawling sensation.

I hope this helps relieve some of our anxiety👍

Fab that you posted this. Thank you. xx
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