Hi Baker,
I had a severe flair up of dry eyes this December, for about a month. I think it is related (for me) with drop of hormones, because at that time I also had other symptoms.
In short, what worked for me:
Hot clean compress/ towel on eyes as soon as the irritation becomes unbearable;
No make up
Cleaning eyelids gently with warm baby soap and water;
Systain Balance eyedrops - or any eyedrops that also contain a lipid component in .
A strong high-dose Omega 3, daily, for 3 months at least.
And continue with hot towel on eyes as this brought the best relief.
I hope this issue resolves soon for you!
Milamam