I know exactly what you mean Bluebell, this condition can be a lonely thing as talking about it can be awkward 😢 It's not something you go around talking about, that's why this forum is fabulous and reassuring in many ways.
I get that funny sort of feeling if I've been to the loo and that horrible pressure feeling. Been using Vagifem twice a week and am on Timbelone. It's a very distressing condition.
When all these symptoms happened to me two and a half years ago I thought what the hell is happening...I still think it now sometimes to be honest, you just have to try and be positive and don't get too anxious about it, which is easier said than done 😔
Talking about it on here really helps x