I suffered uterine prolapse and cystocele and rectocele when I was 23 following a stillbirth. At 32 I went ahead with the hysterectomy but refused repair. The hysterectomy seemed to help the prolapses but just recently I think my bladder has prolapsed quite bad, I've had a few infections and sex can be uncomfortable and I get confused when I need a wee, or can't empty my bladder properly plus when playing golf i get the confusion over whether I need a wee or not along with pelvic discomfort, like a bulging/dropping feeling
I'm reluctant to have surgery. I also had the pessary in my 20s but as soon as I crouched etc the thing popped out, it was more trouble than it was worth x