Well back from docs. She decided I should stop vagifem and gave me some cream to try and settle things down and I'm going to see another gp in the practice next week who specialises in womens health. Hopefully she will be more clued up than this one.
So I'll try this and see what the other one has to say.
I mentioned my anxiety over it all, and in general, and the only suggestion was antidepressants, which I said I didn't want, but I was trying to hold it all together so didn't go too far with that. I did cry a little bit
Its just trial and error isn't it ladies and the main thing for me is going to be to keep my anxiety under control without resorting to the bottle