Hi my name is jeanette (jet for short), i honestly think ive been going through perimenopause for about 2 years ,unfortunately ive had a bad time mentally for about 8 years ,i lost my 19 year-old son to cancer in 2010 ,ive been on citalpram sine 2009 (40mg)since around 2012 ish ,so up to press my period has lessened still quite regular sometimes heavy for me or light ,i can come on twice a month .. so at the mo ,im trying to get help for my hot flashes ,night and day sweats ,mood swings, feeling suicidal, not sleeping, tired all the time etc...so been to the Dr's explained how im feeling down to the fact I'm suicidal and confused with what is going on, they immediately put me on to the crisis team and a counsellor...fine ...but this still doesn't help with my symptoms...so at present one dr says it sounds like im going through the menopause the other dr i so this monday says im depressed and not going through the menopause ....HELP ... jet