Hello again.
I heard from my NHS menopause clinic yesterday, a Jan Brockie, ever so nice. I was crying before work the other morning couldnt go in feel so unreliable etc etc. I have now gone to 4 pumps of oestrogel, or she said 3 pumps and 1mg elleste solo. As the oral tablets did give me migraines I am steering clear of them for now. The ladies who have spent the money having to go private to prof Studd its really good of you to share his information as I can see why he is a lover of the oestrogel. I have the mirena coil for progestorone and to be totally honest I havent had any problems with it all (my 3rd one over 11 years). I did have spells of depression in the past, melanchonia depression they like to call if generally when I lost someone very close. I am currently on 300mg venlaflaxine. Now no anti depressant would work for me until the oestrogen was at a high level whatever that is for me, I dont know it is trial and error. The menopause clininc did tell me that if your oestrogen is not at the right level then an anti depressant wont work.
My menopause clinic is in Oxford and Jan did say that they will take referrals from other counties if the dr was willing. They usually take a few weeks to get you an appointment. The good thing is that you can email them or ring and they always get back to you as an after care service adfter the appointment, you are not discharged and then thats it. Open 2 days a week. May be of interest.
Its hard to find positives from this horrendous journey that started this time last year for me but if I was it would be girls on this forum willinging to open up and be honest about themselves and importantly share their information so you can be armed with it to see your own dr. Talking about it more at work, home, my 2 boys know all about the menopause so should make understanding husbands one day, who knows or will steer clear of women!
The biggest thing is is that we cant help how we feel, we havent chosen this or want to moan etc.. its happened some are more fortunate others arent. Some people sadly get other illnesses that others dont.
The main thing to remember is there is something out there to help but it takes time, I wish there was one size fits all but life is not as easy as that. You will find it and you will maybe a different person but with more understanding. We have so much juggling in our lives than our ancestors did and when they had this they probably didnt work or would talk to family in their communities etc and some didnt even live to menopause age. A lot is expected of us often we have moved away from where we came from so lose that family community etc.. If we need to take time out from our lives for a bit to heal then we must and not beat ourselves up about it xx