Hi Mindfulmoomins - please don't be put off by what I'm going to say as we are all different in the way we respond to medication & there is every chance you will find a regime to suit you well.
In answer to your question, I'm afraid I didn't find a regime I could tolerate that resolved my symptoms completely, but my situation is a bit more complicated as I'm also hypothyroid & a funny patient at that, as I need a combination of thyroid hormones, not just thyroxine to manage my thyroid condition.
I've been on Evorel Conti for 2+ years but didn't start HRT until 3 years post-meno as my mother died of breast cancer, so I'd been trying to avoid using it. My menopause symptoms were severe & went on for more than a decade before I finally decided enough was enough. My oestradiol level pre-HRT was found to be too low to measure, so I took advice from a top Endocrinologist & a Gynae specialising in HRT & both felt starting it would be right for me, regardless of family history.
As I only got partial symptom relief from Evorel Conti, I tried a number of other regimes, but the side effects were too bad to continue, though I suspect this may have been partly due to interaction with my thyroid medication, as the two have to be fine tuned. I returned to the Evorel after each failed trial as I did feel better on this than without HRT.
A few months ago my oestradiol was finally tested for the first time since starting HRT & showed poor absorption - at only half the level expected for a 50mcg patch, explaining the poor symptom control. We were hoping via further trial & error to eventually find a regime that would give full symptom relief, but there has recently been a change in family history that makes me uncertain whether it's sensible to continue & the medics whose advice I've sought have differed in opinion! So I've now been cutting down my patch for 6 weeks with a view to seeing how I am without HRT. If symptoms return at full strength, I will probably go back on HRT & at that point genetic advice will be sought. It has been a difficult decision as I now also have osteopenia & the HRT was my only treatment for that.
I understand completely what a worrying time it can be when you are new to HRT & would just say that it can take a little while to find the regime that is right for you, but it is worth persevering. Many women get on well with the Mirena & using gel allows flexibility with the oestrogen dose. If you decide you really don't want to opt for a Mirena at this stage & want to keep to transdermal oestrogen, the FemSeven patches are an option, as well as using an oestrogen only patch or the gel with Utrogestan capsules (used orally or vaginally).
I'm assuming the Evorel is all you've tried so far, but I don't know your history, so apologies if this is not so. I expect you will get more replies & there is plenty of info on the site if you have a dig around, to help you feel more confident in taking the next step. Take your time so that you are comfortable with what you decide & bear in mind that if the next regime isn't right for you, there will still be others you can try. Please never be afraid to ask questions - we all just want to help & there is always someone here for moral support.
