I am pleased to hear that you are slowly getting back on an even keel Lucyjo, I know it is hard. We will feel normal again one day, its just going to take us a bit of time. I had started to isolate myself even more as it is uncomfortable to speak with the dry mouth, but the surgeon I saw did wonders for sorting out my head. I have a way to go and not sure I will feel completely mentally better until my mouth is better, but he reminded me that I have one life and to go and live it, tricky with CFS/ME as well as menopause, but he is right. I too was dreading a family day on Easter Sunday and even though I wasn't feeling very well, I went. Please go to your party, even if it is a huge effort, you will be chuffed with yourself the next day. Don't give up. x