Oh feeling love for some people is difficult. I had to seek help as I was so angry about the way my Mum treated me as a child and the way my BIL treated me with such hostility. But such anger was only harming me. I love my Mum. I don't always like her, but that's ok. And my BIL, silly man, has lost out on rewarding relationships with DH, me, the children and now grandchildren. His choice. Very isolated man. Love? Sorry, no. Pity? Yes.