Thank you for your replies Ladies,
Taz2... I'm worried about my husband's reaction too which is why I want to get it confirmed by a doctor before telling him. I feel deceptive not telling him yet but I feel I just can't handle accusations & doubts at the moment especially if it turns out to be false as I'm struggling to get my head around it anyway

I do have symptoms but they could also be menopausal... tender boobs, tiredness.
CLKD... I will call the surgery tomorrow and try to speak to the nurse, thank you. I did think about the pharmacist but wondered if they could actually tell me any different than the home test, I'm guessing I'll need a blood test or scan to confirm either way. With regards to my last period, I was almost sure that we hadn't had intercourse since until a few days ago but I can't be 100% sure (not helpful, I know, my memory is terrible these days too

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Thank you both for your advice.