Hi babyjane
My doc recommended Movical to me when I was having problems. It works by drawing water into the gut to soften things rather than other laxatives which cause cramps, wind etc. It's not the cheapest but it does work, comes in half or full strength. After my op I didn't go for a few days so had to take 2 packets to get things moving and it works a treat!
I find I have to drink heaps and have a lot of gentle fibre to keep things moving. Walking as well really helps. Even so my gut definitely has a mind of it's own, hates change of any type. I found being in warm weather helped as well, back to cold and it doesn't like it!
Ju Ju, glad to hear you are sorting your system out! I still find it difficult to eat some high fat foods, something in my brain still goes arghhh no. I did eat a custard donut the other day and it was so yummy! Sweet things are far easier to get back to eating
. I've been travelling recently, different situations and countries which really put me to the test, it's easy to stick to a regime at home.
The things I've found a year or so on from the op is creamy/rich foods just make me feel sick so only to be eaten in small amounts. The big no seems to be oily/greasy foods which give me an upset tum, not bad but still, makes you go lol.... so again, only small amounts of those. At least I'm not afraid of food now like I was and I seem to be keeping my weight under control as well, hopefully because my system is working so much better than it was. Gut bacteria and how it affects weight is something they are also studying at the moment. I take a good probiotic every day and if I forget it then it does seem to have an effect.
I'd agree with you Ju Ju about finding a diet to suit you, although it was flipping painful I am grateful for having the gallstones as I sorted my diet out further (which wasn't actually bad), lost weight and therefore that alone has made me feel so much better along with much better digestion. I find eating out I'll err to a more healthy choice even though I could eat anything but that thing in my brain just won't let me choose it! It's weird but a good weird!
Babyjane, you could also try apple cider vinegar (the organic one with the Mother) as this is a probiotic and helps your digestive system. I have a tablespoon in beetroot juice before dinner, not the most appetising of pre-dinner drinks
but it does seem to work and the beet juice is good for blood pressure.