Hi😊I am in the VA club unfortunately, look,at a thread called " the burning club" lots of info there.
Also if you find the menopause matters online magazine on here go to page 12 and that tells my story it should answer all questions.
Problem with steroid cream it in itself cause thinning of the skin,you can use vagifem 5/7 days a week , there is also the estring , and oestrogen many of us have to,use on the outer bits also. 
This is the part of menopause no one tells you about. Read my piece and then any other questions ask away.