Hi
Thanks so much for the replies, Daisycat, Stellajane and Hurdity! I agree that the change in both has left me not knowing what's what so wasn't very helpful. I had to take the Kliofem as I couldn't get an appointment for three weeks so thought I'd show willing and try it out.
I agree that I need to try separates now then at least I can eliminate/ change the progestin element if I struggle in future.
I intially went for tablets for ease to be honest, but the Kliofem has flaired my IBS/ acid and I'd be surprised if I am absorbing fully. I think patches/ gels need to be my best next step. I'd worried about patches as I can get skin irritation. What is the view on gel/ vs patch for success in absorption? I'm happy to try patches. In fact, I'd try anything to get this sorted

Also, as I was on the highest dose 0.625 conjugated estrogen on Premique, what would be an equivalent in patch/ gel?? Can you get the bioidentical estrogen in patch/ gel?
I'm tempted then to try Provera again first and to go cyclical. Is this do-able with this type? I also fancy trying the Utrogestan, but read they need to be taken on empty stomach at night. I don't usually get my evening meal until 7.30 so at what point would your tummy be empty, do you think? I like the idea of this as it's supposed to be more bioidentical. Do people have positive experiences with it? I'd felt flat on the Premique (but didn't care as at least I could function) and had Depovera injections briefly when I was younger and felt it had affected my mood so stopped. I'm wondering if this is the same progestin.
Sorry for all the questions- I so appreciate any help as I know I'll need to go in armed and request items rather than take the doctor's lead as no-one in my practice seems to specialise in women's health/ HRT. I agree, Daisycat, am tempted to ask if I can request a referral to a specialist unit- if there is one!
Thank goodness for your help, support and advice. Like others, I don't know what I'd do without this site.
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