Tempest, yes, I saw Dr. Newson too. I thought she was great. Confident, kind, optimistic and most importantly, inspiring confidence. As for why GPs ignore NICE guidelines, I honestly think they just don't have time to read them, for a start. But then, when we point them to the appropriate footnote, they should at least consider T gel. Still, I suppose mine did do a referral. But that's another couple of months of waiting for an answer and of feeling shitty and panicky and depressed and not getting work done. I get so angry about the absolute disregard for women's health that permeates EVERYTHING but especially menopause. Lack of science, lack of funding for women's health research, lack of pharmaceutical products, supply difficulties for the products that we are allowed to have (yes, I'm looking at you Novartis). Seeing someone privately does not sit well with my principles, but now I've seen her, I wish I'd done it a year ago. It's so crassly unfair that so many women are struggling and fighting and struggling just to get basic healthcare and to function. Anyway, rant over!