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[Sammas]

First I'd like to say how much I appreciate anyone who takes time to reply to my messages I haven't posted for a while I had been great for months until about 2 weeks ago and feel worse as time goes on I can manage at work but feel like a hermit the rest of the time, having to cancel things planned, coming up with excuses as people won't understand I started feeling more tired and anxious, followed by funny aches, irritability, migraines, feeling sick occasionally I just needed to write this down as I don't want to moaning to family and friends as I am normally so positive x

[Kathleen]

Hello Sammas.

You ramble away girl! In fact it's posts like yours that reassure the rest of us that we are not alone because we feel exactly the same way lol.

Wishing you well and of course the MM ladies are always here to support you.

K.

[Sammas]

Ahh thanks Kathleen! It's good to talk to people who understand Have a lovely day! X

[Megamind]

I could have written your post Sammas!

I seem to be having a hard time lately in social situations. I try to force myself to attend but on the run up i sit thinking up all sorts of excuses to get out of it and sometimes i do make an excuse then feel instantly relieved. I feel like a hermit. I would be quite happy to stay indoors alone all day!

I feel like i'm a different person nowadays and have lost a lot of my personality. I struggle through work as well but i'm lucky i only work part time i definitely couldn't manage full time.

I've started getting more and more headaches and nausea. The nausea reminds me of how i felt when pregnant. I feel tired and ache all the time. Currently have an aching hip!

At first my husband was very understanding now i think he's losing patience! The other day he commented that i seem to have one good day in 30 and he's not far wrong!

It helps to read on here that so many others experience the same thing.

[Sammas]

Hi Megamind
Men can find it hard My husband would go out every weekend I am ok in the day generally but not at night Like you, I feel relieved when things get cancelled I look forward to going out till about 2 days before then I get anxious  I have been to the gym on the power plate this morning which I made myself do Hope today is good for you! X

[babyjane]

I can so relate, it is ridiculous. 

I plan things which sound a nice idea, tell the family what we are going to do, look forward to it.  Then when it starts to get near I run scared and don't want to do it.  Sometimes I will cancel it.  However if I grit my teeth and go to whatever it is more often than not I will enjoy it.  What's that all about?

[CLKD]

It's the nausea that causes me to cancel  .  I have learned not to take on too much at a time.  To allow myself a let-out Clause  but it shouldn't be like this >sigh<

So I have an emergency anti-anxiety pill - in case.  As well as Betablockas and ADs. 

[Sammas]

Why do we have to feel like this? I am increasing my b vits to see if that helps Been out this afternoon but now sitting here feeling fed up as want to go out but feel poo x

[cubagirl]

Meno has a lot to answer for. Give me puberty any day!  I've said so in the past. At puberty there are a few years of grumpiness etc etc but OMG this seems to go on forever.