Beaker, good luck with your appointment today, I hope you get back on track.
Michelemabelle, it sounds like you could be drowning out the positive effects of oestrogen with the daily progesterone - this is what happened to me when I had a Mirena coil with patches. I am also intolerant to all types of synthetic progesterone and to Utrogestan in high doses so I have to seriously limit its use.
From my experience, Utrogestan is far more effective when used vaginally and it also has fewer side effects. You could try using it cyclically and see if you feel significantly better when on the oestrogen only phase.
Having had two Mirena coils myself both pre and post menopause, I would strongly recommend anyone who is progesterone intolerant to use Oestrogel with the Mirena rather than patches or pills to give yourself as much dose flexibility as possible. Although the progesterone in the Mirena coil is mainly confined to the womb, enough of it gets into your overall system to cause side effects (low mood and breast pain for example) and I found I needed very high doses of oestrogen to get any benefit and even 100mcg oestrogen patches didn't cut it.
Obviously those who are not progesterone intolerant can disregard this post.