I've responded to men before who were also swiftly removed so I wasn't at all surprised.
Menomale, he was informed that men weren't allowed on the site and that he had been reported to Emma, though members continued responding to him. I told him that his account would soon be deleted and that he should use the forum as a guest searching out threads that would hopefully offer relevant advice and solutions. It was also suggested that he persuade his wife to join us.
Hopefully, even as a guest, he can find some of the answers he is seeking. x
As an aside anon1889, I too wish you and your family well. Do look up the BBC menopause link I sent you and maybe sit with your wife to watch it. Given that Dr Curry who runs this site appears on the film, it could be a good reason to research this site with your wife. Incidentally, we don't just discuss menopause, our discussions encompass all sorts of other issues that affect our lives, including our children's experiences and caring for our elderly parents. Good luck to you.