Hi Lozzamas
Sorry to hear about your side effects of the HRT.
There are several things. Not wishing to give TMI but colour changes quite considerably depending on diet! Ditto the consistency.....The pale stools and diarrhoea should be checked out with the doctor if this occurs regularly - if it is not due to something you eat - and depends what you mean by pale. It is extremely unlikely that this was caused by the HRT especially as it was transdermal (patch) and did not go through your digestive system!
Re the vaginal itchiness - you definitely should have some vaginal oestrogen to help with bladder issues but pelvic floor exercises should also be carried out every day several times a day to help with stress incontinence. There is information here:
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/vaginalsymptoms.phphttp://www.menopausematters.co.uk/dryness.phphttp://www.menopausematters.co.uk/local.phphttp://www.menopausematters.co.uk/article-vaginal-atrophy.phpRe the Evorel conti - this preparation contains oestrogen and a synthetic progestogen (norethisterone) given continuously. Some women are intolerant to the synthetic progestogen and norethisterone is one which can cause problems like pms, headaches, irritability etc - it is one of the androgenic types (derived from testosterone).
When starting HRT for the first time, even if post-menopausal, it is better to start on a cyclical HRT so that you can determine whether you are OK with a particular progestogen before switching to continuous combined if you prefer. Many of us on here actually remain with a cycle ( and some of us post-meno women on a longer than usual cycle - because we don't want to be on progestogens all the time.
The other options are Femseven - which comes as sequi or conti - or you can have a separate oestrogen patch like estradot, together with a progestogen - either provera or utrogestan,
All the different types are found under Treatments/HRT preparations - above tabs.
Hope this helps and don't give up - there is help out there - but do get your bowel checked out anyway
Hurdity x