Thank you all for your replies
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Period wise, still having them, still regular but.... 18 months ago they got closer together... then they got heavier (thought my spleen had disintegrated or something it was such a mess!)... then in September, I had one that just went on and on. Then a light one, then a 'womb-must-have-rotted' one etc., and this month, started on 8th Jan - was on for 10 days and am still spotting. I went to the Doc last year when I had the last long one and she said it was something to do with my number (46 - but now 47 as of a couple of weeks ago) and maybe I could have some hormones. Unfortunately though, I have nasty varicose veins (have done since being 16!) and had thrombo-phlebitis during pregnancies, plus migraines (which I get a lot of at the moment) and so I couldn't have anything. I started taking vit C with zinc - read something somewhere about zinc... Started having proper hot flushes with this period - counted 11 yesterday. It's not too bad as I'm cold most of the time anyway, but... Stopped taking Evening Primrose Oil - I had rosacea and when, after a short break of a couple of months, started taking the EPO again, my skin flared up and it stopped when I stopped the EPO so that's off the list now.
Regarding brain injury, I had support from Momentum (a group in the Scottish Borders) and had a support worker for the first couple of years post injury who was lovely. It did take a long time for the full effects of the injury to become apparent and that too brought subtle character changes and I was quite lost in who I was for a while, confidence was smashed to bits with it. Neurologist was useless and rude, branded me neurotic... but Headway and Momentum were lovely and arranged a neuropsychologist for me who assessed me and was very helpful. Have had no counselling though.
I think that this time being called 'The Change' means much more than just the periods though. I feel stuff I've never felt before and this week, have had (and I can't believe I'm even saying it!) ... regrets! Never regretted stuff cos I'm a realist! But this week.... I'm a SEamstress and work from home - have done since a year post brain injury because it was what I could still do - but my prior work was different to this and was something I totally loved. I wanted to be a nurse when I was younger but never got onto the course when I was 17, then got married (18) then had kids... then did other stuff but never could do the nursing because of childcare, money etc... And this week, OMG... I so, so, so wish I had pushed harder for this before I had the kids... But then... the realism... blah blah blah... Sorry, blethering on!
Anyway... have just about come to terms with the changes in me from brain injury and now we're off again on another change ride!
Has anyone done anything totally bonkers during this time?