Hi roisen. I have just posted after a while "in the wilderness" and you will see that my main concern is vaginal atrophy, which looking back on it, has been my biggest symptom and probably the cause of many others!
I starting having bladder and vaginal soreness 5 years ago, followed by some light bleeding, 18 months after my "normal" periods stopped, so "post menopause". This was investigated by a hysteroscopy, and the Consultant said that the vaginal lining was VERY thin and ulcerated, and very pale in colour, a sort of grey, but was normal! Ha, great for a male Consultant to say that, he had no idea of the irritation it has caused. If was felt in my bottom, affected my pelvic floor, as this was so tight with the tension, and gave me cramps and IBS. I also had weakness in the tops of my thighs as though I was having a heavy period. I can still feel the soreness and pelvic tightness as I write this 5 years on. So I do understand how you feel, noone had ever told me about this side of menopause!! I am still looking for the Holy Grail of vaginal repair!!!
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