Hello fiftygirl, I take Citalopram, and have done for about 10 years. I find it really helpful, at present I am on 20mg, but I have been on 10mg and 30mg depending on how I'm feeling. Oestrogen Really Helps my anxiety and depression, and the two work together fine. I do get some side effects of the Citalopram, a bit constipated and a bit sweaty, but these are both manageable. Hope you can feel better soon; anxiety and depression is a very horrible thing, and there is life beyond! x