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[CLKD]

Recently, I was trawling the net one evening and saw my Aunt's house is for sale  .  Now I'm worried that something bad has happened  ……… it was the only house in which I felt safe as a child.  If it had a larger garden I would go for it myself  .

I ought to ring her children but I feel too vulnerable as to what I might hear ……….. my anxiety has been 'up' since I saw the details …………..

[Joyce]

Depends on how close you are to her children. Would they not inform you if the worst had happened? My cousin never told us when my aunt & uncle passed. I found out when care home returned Christmas cards!  She may just have moved to something smaller or a care home CLKD.

[dazned]

Im sure if it was something like your Aunt passing away your cousins would have been in touch. Probably as cubagirl says she's decided to downsize or go into a carehome/sheltered accommodation .

[CLKD]

 

[Taz2]

I agree with Hasty. You were obviously close to her at some point even if you are no longer in touch. It would be good to know one way or the other.

Taz x

[dazned]

Maybe your DH could ring on your behalf ?

[CLKD]

That had crossed my mind ……..

[Taz2]

Was there a family argument which caused you to lose touch CLKD?

Taz x

[CLKD]

Never any arguments with those particular members. I have sent a note to the family and await a response.

[Taz2]

That's a good idea. I just wondered why you were no longer in touch.

Taz x

[CLKD]

Time. Distance.  Life  although I send my Aunt regular postcards when we are out and about.

[walking the dog]

Did you hear back ckld? Xx

[CLKD]

   not yet.  Not an e-mail nor a reply ……… 

[walking the dog]

That's not very nice of them and will increase your anxiety 😐 hope you hear soon xx

[CLKD]

So do I.