Definitely it is in the genes. In the supermarket I've stood behind elderly women and observed more hair than I've ever had!
My dear departed Mum battled for years with Female Pattern Hair Loss and I know this is my fate too. The week before she passed I remember clearly her saying: "Look at my hair, I look like a mad woman". Aww, makes me sad. However, she did look younger than me when she was the same age (from photographs) - she had much better skin quality, right into her 80s.
If your hair is good then you can make yourself feel and look okay - hair loss can be devastating and confidence sapping. I also have prominent cow licks at the front hairline and back crown - and an unfortunate parting at the back of my head on the left side - when I had more hair, they were less obvious. hmmppffff.
Tiggergirl, have you tried Fade Out cream.
Always I wear make-up but it doesn't seem to make much difference these days, have all manner of cover-up to try and conceal panda rings. When recovering from a migraine the other week, OH commented that I looked like a junkie!
Countrybumpkin, I think you're right there - face aging goes in sudden stages and it has happened dramatically. Maybe grief has played its part too - lost dear Mum in Sept 2014, now supporting elderly, grieving Dad.
CLKD, I have some extensions that I clip on top and sweep hair back over with a crocodile clip - have painfully grown out highlights and now wondering whether to have them re-done as can't stand the grey mixed with dark mousey dreary colour.
It's interesting to share experiences and thoughts on this.