Hi Nina
Yes, much of what I've read indicates that if you're in your 40s, and going through peri, then you need much higher doses of oestrogen than a woman in her 50s. I think this is especially true if your main symptoms are the cyclical anxiety/mood swings etc? I know of Prof Studd's site he advocates 100Mg patches to alleviate such symptoms in women with extreme PMS, or who are peri.
I could add a 25mg patch to my current 50mg one, but frankly I'm so scared to do anything more to my poor body before I see Annie Evans this week. But, it's so very, very hard as I feel very low, wretched and extremely anxious. I am hiding this as best as I can from my children (they're just about old enough to start noticing things) but have cried with DH several times this last week. Which is totally unlike me!
I am assuming she will tell me that what I need is just more oestrogen?