Hi again
I have been thinking about things a lot, and am very confused as to what's going on with me, and what the best treatment should be.
My last period was August 2014, leading up to that, several years of scanty periods, sometimes up to six months apart.
Night sweats and flushes horrible, brain fog and anxiety and paranoia horrible, but most troublesome symptom is overactive bladder and urgency.
Urgency so troublesome I went to GP, initially two years ago, vesicare prescribed, didn't use as side effects (dry yes etc) too worrisome, especially as I have dry eyes (another meno problem)
Went to GP in May again re urgency and frequency, had bloods taken, eventually had estriol cream prescribed, which has helped.
In August I had a full abdominal and intravaginal ultrasound done plus bloods again, as I had a chronic discomfort in my right side, which turned out to be soft tissue ( I teach dance fitness) the intravaginal scan showed thin lining, 4mm
End Oct, sudden bleed, not heavy, no clots, light bleed (brownish in colour) lasted three days. I called GP on first day, she said she would refer me to gynae at hospital for hysteroscopy.
Appointment was 7th Dec, those of you following my story will know, I has hysteroscopy done, gynae said she couldn't get much sample/biopsy as lining thin, also had to open my cervix as it was closed, she said I was 'too young for this' (I'm just 51) but she was happy that all looked normal inside.
Here's where it gets confusing, all looked normal, thin lining etc, YET recommended mirena to protect my uterus from effects of estriol cream, which she felt could be causing bleed, so I had coil fitted, also estring to help bladder.
She did mention patches, but said no rush and to discuss with GP.
I came home thinking the coil was there to oppose any effects from the estring/estriol cream, but on posting on here was scared to read advice that it's unnecessary to oppose with progesterone, and that mirena could cause endo atrophy!… so I contacted my GP and have since started using oestrogel one pump, still have estring in place too.
This is my second week, on day 7 of having mirena in, I started spotting, and I've spotted every day since.
I am confused as to why I was advised to have the mirena if my uterus lining is thin? And if the bleed was due to using vaginal estriol, then opposing it with mirena should be sufficient without adding oestrogel?
I know I need something to help my frequency, bladder issue, but I am so confused as to the thought process behind what's happened, and now I'm on oestrogel too as I was concerned by the suggestion of endo atrophy.
The fact that I'm spotting is worrying me too as both my ultra sound and hysteroscopy/biopsy said thin lining, I don't want atrophy of lining, anymore than I want a build up.
All I want is control over bladder frequency predominantly, the night sweats are improving with the oestrogel, and my moods and mental clarity have improved, although been feeling a bit crap since the spotting started, and thinking and reading all sorts to try and make sense of what's actually happened, and questioning what treatment I'm now on and if it's right and necessary?
If the mirena was only advised to oppose the effects the gynae considered were from the estriol or estring, then is oestrogel really necessary too?
If oestrogel IS necessary to stop endo atrophy from coil, then is coil necessary? Or would it be best removed and either a) see if post meno bleed happens again? Or b) use utrogestan instead?
I so wish there were more sensible guidelines and help available from our GPs at this confusing and scary time of life, it's unnecessary stress and anxiety, at a time when we feel stressed and anxious enough from our hormonal changes as it is!