Hi, was in a rush yesterday - sorry.
On reading your post again , your GP suggesting you go on a non bleed HRT ? Normally you shouldn't go on a non bleed HRT until you have stopped your periods for at least a year or are over the age of 53ish I think. So - someone correct me if I am wrong but you should be on an HRT with a monthly bleed at 43yrs.
Perhaps suggest going on Femosten 2/10 which is a kinder HRT than Prempac in terms of side effects.
Stress can play a major part in how we feel during the peri/ menopause .
Also watch doctor Annie Evans post on UTube , just type in Annie Evans Menopause lecture and sit back and watch , it's in 3 parts and explains things well.
Anxious, muddled - you have described exactly how we have all felt in varying degrees - a mare isn't it?
I am sure others will be along to give you more support and advice .
Also, as long as your children know you love them and that mummy is just feeling a little out of sorts - nothing to do with them then they will cope, I am sure.
Any way , good luck !
Pepperminty xx