Hi everyone

Would be so grateful for some help.
Hit late 40's and there is hair sprouting everywhere, well mainly the face area. I have a moustache and goatee - if I don't keep an eye on it

Hair is also sprouting on my neck

So it's getting very embarrassing

I'm continually checking for hairs.
The hair on my scalp also gets greasy so quickly. I've tried shampoo's for greasy hair but none of them work

and my hair is like a oil slick by day two.
My mum says it's a sign of the menopause (an annoying one at that) as she had a similar problem with hair and still has, she's 84 now.