Oh the joys of menopause! I was told I had caruncle at entrance to urethra 3 years ago when I was just becoming post menopausal by a urologist. I had started experiencing pain at end of urination. At that time this was mild and I felt I did not need vagifem. Fast forward to now and for past 2 years the painful wee has become constant although variable until a couple of months ago when it became much more painful and was leaving me very uncomfortable for time after a wee. Plus I felt sore down below and tingly and at time itchy although swabs were clear.
I am wary of anything oestrogen because my mother died of breast cancer BUT past 10 days have been awful, constant ache in vagina and pain at end of weeing with the pain lasting for 10 mins afterwards and getting feeling as if I am going to wee myself

Got my lovely long suffering husband to have a rummage around down there last night

and he said I had a lump at entrance to urethra and a patch of white on right side of vagine so off I went to Dr this morning.
Lovely young as in about 12 yrs old lady dr

who had a good old rummage and said it looked really really dry def atrophy and she could see the caruncle as well and said I really need to use vagifem. So I have got the stuff.
I have to go back to her in two weeks for another check up.
I know quite a few people on here use it and just wanted to know if I am likely to get any side effects ( the leaflet is awful as it covers all hrt) or what to expect please.