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pepperminty

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Not in a good place and worried (again)
« on: May 17, 2015, 06:53:31 AM »

After feeling a bit better yesterday,

I have woken up feeling very nauseous , head hurting like a vice , upset bowls (I have been 5 times so far), I just feel as if I have been hit by a bus.  I know it is because of my period on the HRT, I have one more combined tablet to take before the new pack. I don't normally have symptoms this badly. I feel like I am going to throw up. I haven't got a bug. I am really worried that this is going to happen every month . This will make it impossible to work. I can't say my mood is great either , but that's hardly surprising the way I feel. I hope that all this will improve eventually.

Has anyone had this initially with sequential HRT and it has improved ?
 Or do I need to change the route or something. I am fighting back the tears again , and very frustrated as I am desperate to feel well. It's taken me ages to type this as I can't even focus. I just don't know what to do for the best. I am sorry for moaning ,i am just worried i am destined to have this every month.

Peppermintyxx
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toffeecushion

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2015, 07:02:51 AM »

I don't have any experience off HRT so can't advise you.  Just wanted to say sorry you are feeling so bad and send you a hug :bighug:

I'm sure someone will be along soon who help.   In the meantime be kind to yourself and rest as much as you can.  Hope you are feeling better soon.
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Cassie

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2015, 07:48:46 AM »

I often wake up nauseous on the Utrogestan, think its the progesterone part that does it, def makes my tummy ifffy....
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pepperminty

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #3 on: May 17, 2015, 08:36:35 AM »

Thanks ToffeeC and cassie,

I have managed to keep down my last HRT tablet thank goodness. It's like i have drunk a bottle of scotch (or any other strong alcoholic beverage) and have a hangover of gargantuan proportions. My palms are sweating. I keep on telling myself it will get better , but i am not very convincing.

Peppermintyxx
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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2015, 08:56:53 AM »

Are you sure it's not a bug. It really sounds like one with sickness and the runs.

HRT shouldn't be doing this to you, but if it is I would go back to your GP as soon as you can and change.Patches are easier on the tummy.

But again, are you sure you haven't got a bug.

Take care of yourself.

Honeyb
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pepperminty

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2015, 09:15:00 AM »

Yes Honeybun, thanks for replying, this happened last month when I had my period. My GP bless, is next to useless with women's problems. It's definitely the HRT, or at least at that time in the cycle. I have had sweaty palms on and off anyway, just worse today. I will have to wait for my appointment with the meno nurse in June. Last year when I took prempac i seem to remember it getting worse each cycle , not better , which is a bit scary.

Trouble is I don't want to give HRT up as , I have had some improvements , my brain works again and I am not constantly exhausted (still not great though). My bits below are improving and i can cope generally better (I think ). Although at this moment it's hard to remain positive.
I still feel sick , maybe some porridge will help. Quite frankly I'd try anything at this point.

Peppermintyxx
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toffeecushion

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #6 on: May 17, 2015, 09:20:12 AM »

Try to eat little and often and try not to worry as anxiety will only make you feel worse.  Rest the best you can, bet by lunch time you are feeling much better :)
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Dancinggirl

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #7 on: May 17, 2015, 09:33:26 AM »

pepperminty - It is quite common to get a bit of an upset tummy around the time of our period/withdrawal bleed but HRT usually settles bowel problems for many of us. I do think you've got a tummy bug though - you are describing typical symptoms of a virus. You sound terribly anxious and expecting problems to emerge - probably because you have had these issues in the past.  Many of us blame HRT for symptoms when in fact these symptoms are actually worse without HRT??!! Have you got some Co-Codamol to take - this is a good painkiller for headaches and the small amount of codeine in it can reduce diarrhoea - just don't take this too often.
Are you prone to frequent bowel movements? Do you have a high fibre diet? I can easily go 2-3 times a day and have to up my protein intake to help reduce this.
The only other preparation that you could try is Femoston Sequi which also has a kinder progesterone which many women do very well with. However, you are on a very good regime and I'd give this 3-6 months to settle.
If you are still peri menopause then your own hormones will be fluctuating and this can really effect things but your body will settle in time. DG x
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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2015, 10:01:31 AM »

Hello pepperminty.

So sorry that you are suffering I know how you feel.

Have you recently started using this type of HRT? The reason I ask is that I am just over two months in to a new regime ( Evorel Conti 50 mcg ) and as I am due to see my GP soon for a review I thought I'd take another look at the patient information leaflet and read up on the side effects. A lot of what I've been experiencing is listed on the sheet which confirms the problems are caused by hormones ( obviously ) but also that the HRT may be producing it's own kind of upheaval and this may settle in time. If this is the case you may find that your symptoms diminish as your body adjusts to this particular HRT.

I hope you find relief as soon as possible, this hormonal roller coaster ride is no fun at all and you have my sympathy.

Wishing you well and take care.

K.
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pepperminty

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #9 on: May 17, 2015, 10:43:51 AM »

Thanks ladies , it really is the HRT at period time. This is my second bleed and just finished the third packet. Onto packet 4 tomorrow. I wasn't anxious before as yesterday I was feeling ok. I woke up with this at 5.30 am and had to go straight to the loo.
I normally go easily (shall we say) at period time , but this is way worse. This comes with nausea and headache , which is difficult to function with. As my bowels are normally fine and this happens the same time  on HRT I can only put it down to HRT. I didn't expect it to happen this time as my period came earlier and was relatively optimistic .
 I wish it was a bug, really do! I am hoping that it all settles, it's just that being on my own it is hard to cope sometimes and sometimes you need to let it out . Mostly I am very capable and try to be pragmatic about it all. But when you are feeling so ill , it's hard. I wasn't panicky at all until i woke up retching with a sore head. 
Just wish the even keel would come along a bit quicker , or at least be on the horizon. I feel so pathetic because I know it isn't forever , but I don't want to be completely incapacitated every month. I'd be happy with slightly incapacitated.
At least I have managed to get up and have eaten something.
Trying to think of positive things .
 It isn't something that you can readily chat about with others , because all this stuff is hidden behind closed doors . I hadn't a clue what to expect with the peri menopause.
Thank you everyone for taking the time to answer .

Peppermintyxx
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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #10 on: May 17, 2015, 11:21:36 AM »

Sorry to hear that you are feeling awful  :-\

I would say that if you have already been on this hrt for 3 months and abouut to start the 4 th and you can see a definite pattern to this then maybe you need to look at a different type hrt as this would seem not to be suiting you. Hope you feel better soon.
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pepperminty

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #11 on: May 17, 2015, 11:42:20 AM »

Thanks dazned , I feel a little less sick now . I am wondering if it is a combination of things such as my hormones doing their thing and the fact that in the mornings the dosage has worn off , due to tablet form and being low dosage. I am seeing the meno nurse in 3 weeks so I will hold onto then. She must have come across this before. Maybe I need to up the dose or do the patch route, but with a kind progesterone. I really don't mind the odd side effect as nothing is perfect as long as I am feeling better in general. But I haven't improved sufficiently yet.
I am sure I will look back on this and laugh ?  ::)

Thanks again for every ones support, as you do feel you are going a bit looney tunes, as I was fine yesterday

Peppermintyxx
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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #12 on: May 17, 2015, 12:36:24 PM »

pepperminty - What HRt regime are you actually using? Do remind us how you are taking your HRT regime? Are you using Utrogestan for 12 days a month and separate oestrogen every day? How do you take your oestrogen - is it in pill, patch or gel form? You talk about packets? which would suggest you are using oestrogen in pill form and this can sometimes result in more fluctuations.  Patches or gel oestrogen can bring more consistency which might help you. Many women use Utrogestan vaginally which may also help reduce the chance of nausea and headache. Such extreme reactions suggests to me that you are experiencing fluctuations. The nauseous headache can be quite typical for a PMT symptom so if this is really unbearable then you might be extremely progesterone intolerant which is very difficult to overcome.  However, again, I do think it is early days.  I tend to get a headache before the bleed starts and just I know it's going to happen and taken some Co-Codamol to get me through.
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pepperminty

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #13 on: May 17, 2015, 01:25:43 PM »

Hi Dancinggirl,

I am on Femeston 1/10. It is the last combined pill today and the new packet tomorrow.  I have been relatively ok throughout the month, still very tired though. It just seems to happen when I have a period. That I feel this bad.
My period started 4 days into the new packet( the oestrogen only phase) last month and I was the same as  I am today.
 
This month I have been spotting for a week and have now got a period while still on the combined progesterone bit of the packet.

I would assume if it was the progesterone I would be like this from day 14 of the pack when I start the combined bit (oestrogen and progesterone together). But it seems to be connected to the period. As soon as my period starts all hell breaks loose in the morning. That's why I am a bit at a loss as to the best solution.

I am wondering if my hormones are overriding the HRT?

I still feel nauseous and worn out, but better than I did. A little flat , but that's ok.

Thanks ever so for taking the time to reply . I hope the above makes sense.

Peppermintyxx
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Dancinggirl

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Re: Not in a good place and worried (again)
« Reply #14 on: May 17, 2015, 02:34:55 PM »

Ahhh! pepperminty - I do think your are suffering from fluctuating hormones. If you start HRT in the peri stage it can be very difficult as your own hormones can still have a strong influence.  When I was peri menopausal in my mid 30s and first started HRT I actually found I got very headachy at times - sometimes for days. Femoston is a good one to be on and I think you are just going to have to persevere while things settle down - it can take around 6 months.
If you usually take your pill in the morning perhaps try taking it with the evening meal so you don't get the big dip in the early morning which may be triggering the headache.  Unfortunately the headache with nausea is very common before the bleed starts properly and as I mentioned before you just need to be prepared - eat small meals often, avoid caffeine and alcohol and have some Paracetomol or Co-Codamol ready to take to help you through. The reason one gets this headache and nausea is because the progesterone level suddenly drops to trigger the bleed when you go back to the oestrogen only pills and it's the bodies reaction to this.
I'm afraid HRT is often a compromise - the benefits do have to outweigh the side effects. Try not to worry, be patient and if in 3-4 months you are really finding the withdrawal bleeds an issue then perhaps consider having a Mirena (which would eventually result in no bleed at all) with separate oestrogen - this would keep you on a more even state. Sadly any sequential HRt will probably have this effect on you because of the need for a withdrawal bleed and as you are peri menopausal you can't use continuous HRT - although I'm 59 and very post meno and still using sequential HRT as progesterone all the time can give issues.
I have a feeling things will get better for you over the next few months.  Dg x
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