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groundhog

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Re: Weight Gain
« Reply #15 on: April 21, 2015, 08:03:16 AM »

I too struggle with my weight.  Despite being in hospital for almost 3 months,  I hardly lost any weight - thanks to parental nutrition whereby I was fed through a vein.  So despite barely eating I lost nothing!  That said I saw ladies who were so thin through illnesses and it was heartbreaking.  They couldn't eat and struggled to get a few crackers down.  I vowed then if I was lucky enough to eat normally again,  I would never stress about my weight.
But of course we do.  I too have clothes that don't fit and would love to be slim.  I'm eating healthily now to aid healing and trying to walk more but so far nothing has come off.  I have the horrible muffin top :(
I will keep on trying as I want to be as healthy as I can and I so hate that squidgy muffin that sits uncomfortably around my waist ( waist ? What's that )
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Lynda07

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Re: Weight Gain
« Reply #16 on: April 23, 2015, 11:27:11 AM »

Thank you everyone for your replies. If nothing else, I don't feel so alone now.

I've done a lot of thinking this week. I guess the upshot is, this is happening and I need to accept it. I am going to have to eat less. I don't want to - but I think I have to. I have also cycled and power walked and both caused little, if any, knee pain (knee diagnosed after MRI by Consultant, Limpy).

Hugs - I can really identify with crying over it! The lack of control over my weight and frustration I feel because of that actually keeps me awake with worry at night :( Let me know how you get on x

Tiger74- Thanks for that, I know very little about thyroid problems but reading up, it could be a possibility. I told my GP recently what was happening (before I jnew about thyroid problems) but she weighed me, told me my BMI was ok and seemed unconcerned - may have to revisit.

JuJu - I eat a lot more than you by the sounds of it and annieb I suspect, on reflection, I eat more than I think - typical day is a ceral bar. Two slices of toast with two eggs - mid morning to last until the evening. Night time is a beer or two, bag of crisp and my tea - jacket potato or salad or own prepared meal. Takeaway once every two to three week. Occasional biscuit, luckily not desperate for biscuits and chocolate. Oh I make my own smoothies. No idea if I eat more or less than friends..

Hurdity - thanks, reading your reply again reminds me I have to cut down.

Thank you everyone, again for support and inspiration. xxx



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babyjane

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Re: Weight Gain
« Reply #17 on: April 25, 2015, 03:32:03 PM »



I am beginning to think that I don't so much have a weight problem but an image problem, I just am not keen on the way I look.

I think a wardrobe makeover embracing my 58 year old more rounded person could be in order instead of looking frumpy in 10 year old dull stuff.  this is who I am now, let's celebrate it  :)
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Dulciana

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Re: Weight Gain
« Reply #18 on: April 25, 2015, 04:58:14 PM »

Lovely idea, babyjane   Go for it!   :)
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