After a really hideous week, both physically and emotionally, I went to my doctor yesterday for some advice. I thought I'd share what she said as it seems to be contrary to the experience of some other ladies in peri menopause, like me, and may give you hope.
Firstly, she suggested that my current regime of 50mg Evorel and Utrogestan for 14 days is not powerful enough to override the fluctuations I'm experiencing. While I am definitely more 'my old self' on HRT (it took 4 months at least to feel these benefits) I do have random days and weeks of quite extreme physical and emotional symptoms. I've therefore decided to take a risk and switch to Qlaira as a 'bridge' to returning to HRT at a later date. This is a new contraceptive pill which uses natural estrogen and only has two 'blank pill' days so it's more akin to HRT. It's apparently the pill closest to following the pattern of our natural hormone levels. It does include quite a complicated set of 'missed pill' rules, but providing you remember to take them, I guess this shouldn't be an issue.
Interestingly, she was happy for me to take this despite a family history of strokes at a young age and having suffered from migraines with aura in the past. Her reasoning was that each case needs to be considered individually, and for me, the benefits to my quality of life, she feels, outweigh the risks. (This concurs with what I heard a doctor on the radio saying last week: that under 50, if you are not producing enough estrogen, you have a 'deficiency' for which you body isn't designed, and therefore a higher and consistent dose of estrogen is required). It was great to speak to a doctor who was so open minded and reminded me why I am so glad I finally switched from my previous (old, male 'peri meopause doesn't need HRT') GP to a female 40 something with an interest in gynaecology. (I think I was previously in such a state that even switching GPs seemed too much of an ordeal, hence the reason I took so long to move!).
We also came up with an alternative plan if this doesn't work or the side effects are too great. Having explained that I am one of the more unusual people who prefers the progesterone phase of my HRT, she has agreed for me to try a conti regime even though I have regular periods. She suggested switching Femeston, if I go down this route, as so many of her peri menopausal patients in my situation have found this to be most effective. Again, I add this since I know there are a number of ladies on here who have questioned whether you can do this while still experiencing regular periods.
I can't deny that I am really anxious about starting Qlaira, especially as there are so few people who've taken it already to advise, though these posts have been quite useful:
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/forum/index.php'topic=24521.0http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/a829455-Qlaira-contraceptive-pill-anyone-used-it-yetI will keep you informed of how it goes, as I know there are others on here in the 'should I/shouldn't I' situation I was/am with Qlaira!
B xx