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[Limpy]

Oh heck Suzi - what a xmas,  So sorry to hear about your Dad.
The nurse and Wallasey  police sound absolutely brilliant the way they found your address and contacted you.
You got to spend 2 days with him before he died, he will have known you were there, that will have helped him loads.

Lots of hugs       

[Hurdity]

So sorry to hear about this news Suzi Q and what an awful time you've had! Also glad too that you managed to see him before he died - amazing that you were able to when you live such a long distance away.

I always regret that I wasn't able to be with my dear dad when he died - he was ill and was in hospital with cancer and I went away for the weekend to a professional conference type thing that had been booked for ages and he died while I was away. There was no indication that he was getting any worse.....

Sounds as though you've had a difficult time sorting everything out and especially as there was no will.

Glad things have sorted out re daycare of your grandson too.

Hurdity x

 

[Dorothy]

Hi Suzi, I don't know you as I'm new here, but just had to post and say how very sorry I am.  I lost my Dad 18 months ago and I know it is such a stressful upsetting time.  But so glad you got there in time to see him - he would have known you were there.  Take some time out to grieve and heal and hang onto the good memories.  Hugs Dorothy x   

[CJ-sleepless]

Hi I'm new too but wanted to say sorry for your loss.  Sounds an altogether horrendous experience!   

[Briony]

So sorry to hear your news Suzy Q. What a terrible ordeal. You're always so supportive of others and speak such sense.  Really want to send you hugs xxxx

[Taz2]

So sorry to read of what you've been going through SuziQ.

Taz x 

[Suzi Q]

To the new ladies thank you very much xxx
To old members thank you means a lot to me xxxx
It all seems a dream as if it never happened its so hard to realise Dads gone?
My homes gone in Wallasey Mum Dad brother all dead now only me left!
Ive wonderful cousins fab ones they have been wonderful But its not the same.
They lost their parents too in the last couple of years(My Dad bro and my Aunty)
So they understood but there so many of them 8 brothers and sisters (my cousins)
All married with wives children grandchildren one with a grt grandchild about 50 of them
Me well Bobbles Son and dinlaw and my ZEKE who today finally said  my name not nana
NOPE He kept saying Nin Nin I dont care Ill be NIN NIN forever he toddled up arms out
NIN NIN you can imagine my face bliss. BUT he went to DCARE and yep snotty nose cold
Thanks girls for being here it means a lot xxxxxxxxxx

[CLKD]

>>> Suzy Q  <<<

glad to hear that wee boy is walking ……… he'll be stringing sentences together soon 

[Rowan]

Just seen and read this thread Suzy Q, as Taz says its been a nightmare for you, you have a very close and loving family In OZ to keep you sane and grounded but its a lonely feeling when your last parent dies.

You will bounce back x

[Suzi Q]

It is a lonely feeling its weird cant explain it?
I miss both Mum and Dad but its my bother John thats the killer.
I cried for 11 months daily. Still cry He wasnt supposed to go. I more or less brought him up.
Over 10 years yet when I went home the first thing I did after seeing Dad.
Was go to the cemetry and give him a good shouting AT.
I like most people feel weird nothing real.Entire thing feels as if it never happened?
I thought coming back would help me to mourn in fact the opp its as if hes still in his flat?
Bobbles was great today he took me out bought me a pandora charm silver@gold
An Angel wing with a heart@cross in gold attached 3 in 1. Its to represent Mum Dad John.
Im blessed I know Im  much luckier than so many . But as I say and I think its relivant
You know your pains nothing to some peoples but your pains as bad to you even though u know yours is as nothing to others ITS human nature but as long as you have empithy for others its OK to go with your pain and accept that its ok to feel crap and to moan and cry.
My pals Mum is sick 2 freinds lost their Dads over Xmas both younger than me
As was there Dads so Im not Billy no mates. Im just trying to be grateful to what I do have
Im trying not to think on what I dont have. The cup has to be half full not half empty.
As Bobbles said Suzi Q kowne gets out of here alive hehehehehe

[CLKD]

You are remote from Wallasey so it will feel remote.  Nowt wrong with that.  Have you a photo of your Dad to stand in a corner, maybe with a small vase of flowers in front? Family photo at all?

Your bro was part of your childhood routine, of course you miss him.  I don't have a familial relationship to fall back on.  Don't have much contact with my sister or cousins.  They are 'out there' ……..

I mourn for friends though.  It affects us all differently but the same somehow!

   Suzi - it's early days yet 

[Dorothy]

It will take a while for things to sink in and adjust.  Give yourself time.

[Suzi Q]

You are remote from Wallasey so it will feel remote.  Nowt wrong with that.  Have you a photo of your Dad to stand in a corner, maybe with a small vase of flowers in front? Family photo at all?

Your bro was part of your childhood routine, of course you miss him.  I don't have a familial relationship to fall back on.  Don't have much contact with my sister or cousins.  They are 'out there' ……..

I mourn for friends though.  It affects us all differently but the same somehow!


Dont know whats happened but my comp crashed I had to re enter and theres no reply on any posts I hae to hit quote any ideas?

   Suzi - it's early days yet 

[Suzi Q]

OK DUUUU i FOUND IT.
oH AND YOU WILL NEVER GUESS WHAT iM DOWNLOADING EVERY MONDAY
THE ARCHERS OMNIBUS ON MY IPOD
WHAT A SWINE TO HAVE GONE TO SA AMD LEFT YOUR WIFE
WONDER HOW THE FROCK WILL TURN OUT WILL THEY GET CHUCKED OFF THE TENNANT FARM BEFORE THE WEDDING AND WILL THAT STUPID CHILDISH MOTHER GET A GOOD SMACK dadadaddddadaddadadadadaaaaaa DRUMDUMDETUMTETUM DU DU DUDU
DADADADDUMDIDLYIUM YES I KNOW BUT I LOVE IT XXXXXXXXXXX

[Limpy]

Suzi Q - You are not alone.
I've just been listening to the Archers omnibus here.
Looks like Ed Grundy is going to sell off his herd - that's a big shame.
Do you think David & Ruth will actually sell Brookfield and move north?