I know just how you feel Donna, and I really sympathise you're going through this. It is awful.
I'm not on HRT yet, but am struggling with peri menopausal symptoms which are pretty much all psychological. I have been fine for a few months but this week the anxiety has come back again, and I feel quite tearful and fearful all the time. I have also been feeling quite chilly too which really isn't like me at all (usually very warm blooded).
I just don't know when it's going to start. Right now as I'm typing to you I feel pretty okay, but this afternoon I felt shaky and tearful. I have no idea how I'm going to feel when I go to bed? How will I feel tomorrow?
I was hoping that HRT would get rid of all these emotional ups and downs, but reading your post has (sadly) made me realise that this isn't the case

Does the emotional roller coaster finally stop once you're out the other side of the menopause? Anyone know?