Hi robotwars - I'm sorry I can't remember where you are in menopause re periods/frequency and how old you are? Because of this I can't remember why you are being put on the combined contraceptive pill? Is it because of the bleeding?
If you are wanting HRT because of menopausal symptoms, though this is probably not the best solution - it is not the same as HRT. The oestrogen in the pill is synthetic, as is the progestogen (which it also usually is in HRT).
Apart from this the main reason for not taking the pill during peri-menopause is because there is a pill-free month and therefore both progestogen and oestrogen levels will fall and you are likely to experience more extreme mood swings than on HRT, even if the bleeding is better controlled. Also you take the progestogen (norethisterone) for the whole 3 weeks.
In peri-menopause although the oestrogen levels are fluctuating - as you get further into it the overall level will drop - and HRT gives you a constant level of oestrogen which can be supplemented by your own while you still have some....
The difficulty with most HRT is that it is either cyclical - with 12-14 days progestogen or continuous combined (for post-meno women). Only by taking oestrogen separately from progestogen do you have the flexibility of (temporarily) increasing the progestogen due to heavy bleeding. If you look here there are progestogens that can be taken separately from oestrogen
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/to_progestogens.php but sounds like your doc isn't switched on to the varieties and combinations of HRT that exist?
Did you doc suggest any other options to control the bleeding? I seem to remember we have discussed this before and the options listed on here are:
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/periodtreatments.php. I am sure I suggested the Mirena coil - which seems to be used successfully by many women and then extra oestrogen can be used to control flushes and sweats.
Sorry to put a spanner in the works but I don't think you have been given the best advice if you have other menopausal symptoms in addition to the bleeding and your periods have become erratic. However it might just work for you!!
Hurdity x