There is 18 years difference between OH and myself, like HB I wish there was not, I would not change him, just wish he was the same age as me 24 years ago it did not matter at all.
I have seem him through a brain tumour, pacemaker, heath scares, two life threatening, very traumatic, numerous hospital admittances and visits to A&E and the daily ailments, the drugs he has to take scare me. It has clipped my wings and my once wide world very small now.
It is frightening seeing the aging process daily, to see a very handsome charismatic man age, at times breaks my heart. He still looks nowhere near his age and he has a very sharp clear mind, that is a consolation, but I still wish we were more of a similar age.